U Time

Ladies we often so busy with everything and everyone else that we totally forget about ourselves. If we you have kids you know that its hard to just do something for yourself without thinking thrice. I always make sure that at the end of each month or at the beginning of each paycheck i pay myself. I'm not talking about the pay yourself savings, although this too is very important. What i mean is do something that you want to do and do it alone. 

When i say alone this means with no husband, no boyfriend\girlfriend, no children. If you wanna include your BFF's that's okay, but nobody who will make YOUR day into a stressfull occasion. dont feel quilty about it, you work damn hard throughout the month, wether you work at home or office, make some you time its the best thing to keep you sane.

Me and my girls uses to go for brunch at the end of each month, but when work didnt allow us to have the time we would do a little get together in the cafeteria or have a mini shoping spree during our lunch break. Times are tuff so what we do is set a limit so we each give a partner the amount of money we are going to spend and we not allowed to take anything else with so that we can stay within budget. 

for those of us who stayed in the same area we'd have a get together on our off day or on the weekend. what I have experienced with a friend of mine is that she doesnt think she can go out weekends, even for a few hours because both she and her husband works and weekends are the only time he gets to see his friends. 

I'm no feminist but the days of submisve woman have passed with moses, arrange that he have his boy time saterday perhaps, watch the game, hang with the boys. you can take this time to prep your sunday lunch so that Sunday you can have a relaxing day with the girls. 

BUTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! there is one condition to his and her U Time.

NO SPENDING THE DAY MOANING ABOUT YOUR PARTNER!!!!!!!!! try it